Post Adoption: 7 Months Home

This sweet boy has been home seven months! (Okay, seven months and some change. Summer is hard.) 

It’s crazy to think that a year ago, we hadn’t even seen his face yet, and now we can’t imagine our life without him. What an amazing God we serve.
So, let’s see…here’s what has been going on this month with our Brooks!

PHYSICAL DEVELOPMENT: Not a whole lot of change here…Brooks continues to be 90 mph most of the time. Blake and I have both noticed that he’s gotten heavier lately, so I’m very curious what his weight is now. I’m guessing 21-22 pounds, but since we haven’t been to the doctor in a while, I’m truthfully not sure. His clothes seem to be getting tighter, too, so I’m eager to see how he’s grown! 

ATTACHMENT: All good things here! This month, he got pretty particular about only wanting Mommy to do certain things…that was kind of hard, but it’s also totally normal toddler behavior. As I’m writing this, he’s currently at his first preschool camp…his first separation for longer than an hour in a structured, school-like environment. Prayers! I’ll let you know how he did later this week.

LANGUAGE: I’d definitely say this has been his biggest improvement again this month. He’s trying to string words together which is super cute. He’ll try to say “Bye bye Carter,” “Night night Daddy,” and things like that. It’s not totally clear yet, but he’s trying which is just about all I can hope for right now.

He’s also gotten really into animal and vehicle sounds this month. He knows the sounds that cows, monkeys, snakes, dogs, cats, horses, ducks, and birds make, and he’ll also say “beep beep” or “vroom” for cars and “chugga chugga choo choo” for trains. It’s pretty adorable if I do say so myself. Also…I’ve never had a kid before that lined up cars. I’ve always seen other kids do it, but mine never have. Brooks LOVES to do this…and it’s apparently exhausting. 😉

SLEEP: So, we finally weaned him off Melatonin this month which means the days of rocking him to sleep are gone. He has a very hard time winding down and shutting off at night, so we started a new ritual at night where we tuck in his stuffed animals (“woof woof” and “ah ah,” his monkey and dog) with one of his blankets and then tuck him in with his blanket. We give everyone kisses and say “night night” and then I leave the room. 99.9% of the time he doesn’t fuss and simply yells “night night” back to me once the door shuts and then he goes to sleep.

Part of me is so happy about this because it shows tremendous attachment growth and also shows that he feels safe, but I won’t lie, I kind of miss the snuggles! Part of growing up, I know…but knowing he’s probably our last baby, it’s hard to let go!

FOOD: This continues to basically be his love language. No real change here other than he fell in love with whole milk yogurt pouches this month. Mom didn’t fall in love with the price (over $1 per pouch…ouch!), but since we can’t get more than a few sips of milk into him here and there, I know he needs the calcium and vitamin D, so we bite the bullet and pay it. 

HEALTH: No sickness this month, and we’ve cut our breathing treatments down to just once a day! WOO-freaking-HOO! He also got two thumbs up at his post-op check with the urologist, so that was great to hear! Healthy boy! 

Brooks is no longer “unaware” when the big kids get treats…and must have one of his own. SIGH. So, this month, he’s had his first Blizzard, Slurpee, and ice cream sandwich.

Maybe that’s why he’s heavier? 😉 

This kid will NOT be left out of pictures. He will weasel his little tushy in the middle of the mix and “DEE!” (cheese) until the cows come home. He wants to be IN the mix…such a stinker! Also, he has NO IDEA how many “big brothers” he actually has. This kid is so doted on by all of our friends and their kids that I’m quite certain NO ONE will mess with him. He has been so incredibly accepted and loved by so many…it truly takes a village, y’all. 

He has some mad love for the splash pad… 

and went to the zoo for the first time this month!
And got another haircut…why does he looks SO BIG?!! 
We love this little man something fierce…looking forward to all the next month will bring with his first trip to the lake, moving into our new house, and another week of camp! Happy Monday, friends! 

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